In 2022 I got lost in the hustle of spiritual healing & coaching & couldn’t figure out what was going wrong for me.
Something didn’t feel right, but I couldn’t pin point what it was, I blamed myself because surely my mentors were right & I was wrong?
I realised the manipulation of the online coaching industry.
It finds your weak spots and then tells you it has the perfect thing to make it go away… FOREVER. With one hell of a chunky price tag.
1) It’s not always possible to make issues go away forever, you just learn to manage them
AND
2) I realised that a lot of the people who were dealing with my mental health had no qualifications
They’d use their “spiritual gift” to draw me in & I totally lost touch with reality. Because I believed them. So much I started using their language.
I started being a Confidence Coach because one I had a desire since being a child to help people & two I then got qualified as a Transformational Coach.
And last year I got it all a bit confused. I still wanted to help people, but the people helping me were actually causing harm. So I needed a break. Even though my clients were so encouraging of my work.
I realised the mentors I had were trying to coach me on things way above their education & experience.
So if this has happened to you, I want you to know you’re not alone. I’m sharing my experience to bring light to any mentors you follow and evidence to any red flag’s you’ve noticed online. A LOT of my colleagues in the industry have had the same experience.
It’s crazy because there’s even fear in writing this & putting myself out there again. Sometimes it takes a while to get stronger when something has been taken from you. But hearing from past clients how much of an impact I’ve had on them gives me back my confidence.
My break has taught me how to do things differently. I want to offer accessible mental health support so people have someone in their corner that doesn’t break their bank account. I’m excited to explore what that looks like.
Keep your eyes and ears peeled for what’s next, much love 💛
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